Behind the quote… lies true inspiration.

Quotes are like little pockets of life all sewn up in a few words.  They remind us of our humanity, our potential, even at time our losses.  Sometimes the quote itself, just the words, is sufficient to inspire the moment.  But quite often, the true inspiration and value comes when we know the story behind the quote.   Over the years, there have been many times when a quote has crossed my path and has paused my step.  There have also been times when the words re-directed the next steps.  And there have been times when the words have kept my steps going.

One of those quotes showed up in my news feed on Facebook yesterday from a friend.  The timing was impeccable for my journey.  Here are those words:

“You never know what is around the corner. 

It could be everything. Or it could be nothing.

You keep putting one foot in front of the other,

and then one day you look back

And you have climbed a mountain.”

The tapestry of these words was so rich in color and texture I wanted to know more and did some research.  I found a beautiful video where the words are spoken.  The story is the inspiration.  The words mean more when you know what is behind the quote.  We cannot give up on our journey.  We must keep putting one foot in front of the other.  And one day we will look back and find that we have climbed that mountain.  And we are our own champion.

Enjoy!

 

Quotes & questions: A powerful combination

I have always loved quotes.  My inner circle has even called me a quote junkie because I use them frequently in my communications and writing.  I recently experienced a day where a quote from the past and a question for today joined together to create a change catalyst for me. Has that ever happened for you?  You read something and then you experience that truth in a very real and vivid way.  It is one of the spiritual phenomenons that will bring me to my knees in gratitude every time.

The quote:  Mark Twain once said that “..The secret of getting ahead is getting started.”  Sounds rather simplistic but in fact, there is magic in those words.  One of the most challenging lessons I continue to learn is that progress will always trump perfection.  Continuous progress builds momentum and with momentum, we can transform a dream into reality.

The question:  A mentor asked me what I was willing to give up to realize a particular dream.  Always before the question was about what I was willing to do.  Now it shifted.  What was I willing to give up.  Finding the time to “start” was caught in a showdown between priorities.  I had to choose.  My answer?  I am ready to give up excuses. Because when it is all said and done, time isn’t the problem.  I am.  When asked why that was my choice I responded:  Because my excuses are holding me back from starting. Nothing else. And holding back from the start is robbing me of the finish line.  So to begin, that is what I must give up.  To finish, that is what I must give up.  Excuses.”

We never know when the words we hear or the questions we ask are going to be that “spark”.  Excuses weren’t something I even acknowledged before that conversation.  It wasn’t until that moment that I saw that the reasons were in fact just excuses.  The spark of change can be knowledge, insight, praise, even criticism.  But the outcome holds universal potential.  The right words at the right time can spell magic: if we allow it.

What quote from a thought leader have you heard recently that really resonated with you? What questions should you be asking related to that thought? The sounds bites can bring insight.  But when we really hear them and ask the right questions, they can also get us to action which is key.  I’m thinking of it as going from insight to incite. Let’s get started!

Multiplying our joys…

Blindly following the rules has never held much appeal to me. But I’m not totally convinced it’s just a bit of a rebellious nature.  Some of it is curiosity.  And some of it is the need to understand, to know why we do certain things in certain ways vs. just doing them. Challenging the status quo seems to me to be a responsibility, something we should all do all of the time.

Some of it is also from the values handed down to me over several generations of some incredible men and women.  Always defying the odds.  Always reaching (and working) for more.  For themselves and for the next generation.  When we reach beyond ourselves for those that come from us but beyond us, we are in fact multiplying our joys in everything we do.  Every accomplishment is setting the stage for someone else’s – even generations away.  I take great joy in that.

Today my granddaughter graduated from the 6th grade.  She did so with a 4.0 GPA and as a member of the Honors Society.  She is named for her great great great (yes- 3 greats!) grandmother.  She was half-Cherokee Indian and a single Mom.  Not the easiest of things even today.  But that was her life in the late 1800’s.  And yet she persevered.  She ran her own business, had one of the first bank accounts and raised her own children to be independent, to value education and accept responsibility for their own lives and well being.  She believed in herself and them. They passed it on. The legacy started even then to do your best everyday and before you know it, you’ll leave a mark.

She didn’t have to know then that five generations later, a young girl would be named for her and would continue to follow her path of excellence.  But she knew it mattered for all of us to do our best, to be our best. And she set the example. I’d like to think that she knows about today’s news and that her joy over those many generations has been multiplied ten times over.  Mine certainly was.

So congratulations, Skylar Mackenzie Koecher!  From your Nana.. and from Great Great Great Grandmother Molly Mackenzie!  We are so proud of you!

Behind the quote: Ralph Waldo Emerson

He remains one of the most influential and quoted writers of 19th century America.

What is interesting is that some of his most successful writings did not begin in fact as essays, they started out as speeches he gave to audiences and later published. 

Another notable point is that he was an early “self-publisher”.  He delivered an address to the Phi Beta Kappa Society at Cambridge in 1837 which ultimately became the work known as “The American Scholar”. 

At the urging of friends, he published it himself at his own expense. 

He also wrote his own musings in journals and it was his influence that resulted in Thoreau also starting to journal.  The Harvard University Press has published his journals in 16 volumes and some believe it contains some of his best work.  That’s not surprising to me given that the creative freedom of personal journals does often result in bursts of brilliance for most writers.

Another point worth mentioning is that he was also one of the early adopters of lecture “series” and he found that by approaching the market as a lecturer in this format gave him a much higher return financially.  At one point he was doing as many as 80 series a year and traveling a great deal.

When Walt Whitman first published his signature work Leaves of Grass, he sent a copy to Emerson for an opinion – perhaps an early “review”.  When he received a positive response, it stirred up market interest as well and a second edition was published.

What is the significance of all of this? It gives us insight into who he was and how he operated.  It helps put the quotes we have attributed to him within a context that makes them more crystallized.  It also speaks to the fact that success leaves clues.  Why do we still after nearly 200 years quote Emerson’s writings? Because he didn’t just write words.  He discussed ideas and presented new thoughts.  He delivered his message across different medias.  And he supported the work of others. His own private writings and observations of life in his world remain salient now.  One of my favorites of his thoughts is that “..The measure of a master is his success in bringing all men around to his opinion twenty years later.”

Our legacies are what live beyond us. In that respect, we are no different from Emerson. Although I have many fundamental philosophical differences with the man, in many areas his philosophies do resonate with me. Perhaps they will with you, too. 

Emerson on using new experiences as a way to put the past behind us:

Be not the slave of your own past. Plunge into the sublime seas, dive deep and swim far, so you shall come back with self-respect, with new power, with an advanced experience that shall explain and overlook the old.

Finish each day and be done with it. You have done what you could. Some blunders and absurdities no doubt crept in; forget them as soon as you can. Tomorrow is a new day; begin it well and serenely and with too high a spirit to be encumbered with your old nonsense.

Emerson on our individual uniqueness:

Insist on yourself; never imitate… Every great man is unique.

What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us.

None of us will ever accomplish anything excellent or commanding except when he listens to this whisper which is heard by him alone.

Emerson on character:

People seem not to see that their opinion of the world is also a confession of their character.

What you do speaks so loud that I cannot hear what you say.

And my own personal favorites:

This time, like all times, is a very good one, if we but know what to do with it.

Our chief want in life is somebody who shall make us do what we can.

The reward of a thing well done is to have done it.

And in closing, what would he say about this blog post? Perhaps he would say again: “…I hate quotations.  Tell me what you know.”  I love that.

Welcome to our blog! Again!

One year and two months ago today our blog was born. It’s been an amazing year filled with things expected and things unplanned.  In other words – it’s been life as usual.I have been richly blessed over these past fourteen months as I’ve explored, written and shared with you here.   I was reminded yesterday speaking with a friend that it’s important sometimes to go back and just check in to see how we’re doing along the way.  As a result, I’ve been going back through some of the early posts.  When I came to the first post, it was a treat to see how even though so much has changed, what matters remains the same.

The message in this post is still what we are about.  Our values don’t change.  How we practice them might – but core values are here to stay.  I hope you enjoy the re-post.  (By the way – the young woman in the post has since had another daughter – Miss Keira!  Her Nana couldn’t be more delighted!)

——-Originally posted February 13, 2012————————–

Lauren_30Thank you for stopping by and joining the conversation. We look forward to engaging with you as together we discover new pathways to success.

To really embrace possibility, you have to first be willing to let go of anything (or anyone) that up until now you have allowed to limit you.

You know what I mean. Those silent (or not so silent!) “advisors” saying “you’ve never been able to do that before”, or “no one else has done that before”, or any other beliefs that forecast anything less than the best possibility of success.

It’s important though to understand that possibility thinking is not just about positive thinking.  It is not seeing everything through rose-colored glasses.  It is about not limiting your options and choices.  It considers all risks so that you can guard against them. But it greatly expands your available choices.  That’s why it works.

Let me share with you a story.

The photograph with this post is a great example of possibility thinking.  It was taken by a young woman on a trip last year to Yellowstone National Park in Wyoming.

While I love the image itself since it shows beauty growing in an unlikely place, the photographer is the real story.  Today she turned 30.  She is mother to a delightful 11-year-old daughter, wife to a wonderful and loving husband, a 4.0 GPA college graduate, and just recently had to take a break from her dance classes (ballet) while she’s expecting their second child.

What is remarkable about that?  The probabilities for her were much different.  Born at just 27 weeks (that’s nearly 3 months early!), she suffered hemorrhages in both eyes and her brain.  The doctors were not hopeful about her quality of life – IF she survived.  The picture they painted included significant learning disabilities and at best, only being able to walk with leg braces.  Also a good chance she would be blind.  Wow!  What made the outcome so different? Love, prayer and perseverance? Yes. Absolutely.  But what stimulated those?  The belief that there was another possible outcome.

This is a personal quest for me.  She’s my daughter.  For the last 30 years we have lived and grown in the land of possibility.  And the rewards have been nothing less than miraculous.

What probabilities are you accepting without considering that something else is possible?