Your 5 Step Guide for Strategic Learning

As a life-long learner, one of the areas where I used to struggle was being intentional with my learning.  My curiosity led me down paths not related to any of my priorities and created unproductive distractions.  I become a serial student.  I was draining resources instead of creating them.

Courses were everywhere for only $27 or $47 or $97, etc. and I would be an expert in six easy lessons.  But I wasn’t.  Sound familiar? You think you might need to know that information, if not now, one day for certain and so you sign up.  Quite frankly, it’s how self-help becomes shelf help in the blink of an eye.  Why? Because if you don’t have an immediate need for the information you are not going to apply it.  Without that application, information never transforms to usable knowledge.  After spending hundreds if not thousands of dollars, I knew I had to come up with a way to be strategic about learning while still allowing my curiosity to serve me where it could be most effective.

It was clear that resources for learning were in abundance.  In fact, that was a big part of the challenge.  So many opportunities can make it difficult to know which to select.  I found that the secret is in having a framework to serve as guideposts and then creating space within your schedule for a learning plan.  Following this path will ensure that you remain a lifelong learner and gain knowledge useful for yourself and those your serve.

Here are five guidelines that can help:

#1:  Understand that there is a difference between knowledge and skill.  Gaining knowledge on a subject to deepen expertise gets a different priority than learning “how to do something”.  If the learning is related to a skill, first determine if you should actually be the one doing that activity and if not, hire the skill, don’t worry about developing it personally.  If you need to have a basic understanding of how it works, find 3 respected resources and read their articles (free…) on the subject.  You’ll know enough to know how to hire the right resource to actually perform the task.   There is the benchmark for skill learning:  Know enough to make a good hiring or partnering choice and no more unless you actually should be doing that task.

#2:  Devote a minimum of 30 minutes a day to learning in your chosen area of expertise and influence.  Vary your sources by both creator and media.  For example, if your expertise is personal development, you might read a book by Tony Robbins and go through a video series from Brian Tracy.   Make certain that you are including both established experts/mentors and following emerging voices in your area of expertise.  For example, I follow Jim Rohn as an evergreen knowledge mentor as well as Darren Hardy (Success magazine) as a contemporary resource for today’s application of that knowledge.

#3:  Include personal skill building and development in your learning plan.  This helps keep things balanced and in perspective.  You may not need to learn about Italian cooking for your business but if is something you want to personally learn about and master, give it priority in your learning plan.  Having a depth of knowledge about healthy foods may not help you in business decisions but it will certainly make you more capable and confident in managing your health which enables you to work at optimal energy levels in every area of your life.  If you care about something, study it and practice it.

#4:  Learn alone and in groups.  Studies show that we function best as a student and a teacher when we have some solitary activities as well as group or community level learning activities.  Having the ability to interact about what we are learning can be invaluable in seeing innovative ways to apply the newly acquired knowledge.

#5:  Have a learning vision log.  Have you ever wanted to “find the time” to learn something and could never seem to do it?  Getting those areas of interest committed to a learning vision log gives you a place to refer to when creating your learning plan calendar.  The time you allocate to learning can then be prioritized based on what you want to know vs. whatever comes across your path.  My recommendation and working plan with clients is to make sure that you have a learning vision log that includes an item count equal to one-third of your age with a minimum of 10.  Mix this up between personal areas of interest and what you need to be learning for your business and those your serve.   If this is challenging for you, here are some questions that can help get you started:

  • If time and or resources were not a factor, what classes would you take? (Cooking, art, languages, wine, crafts, sky diving, – you get the picture!)
  • What skills or knowledge do you respect and admire in others? (Perhaps public speaking or writing as an example.)
  • What do you hire others to do for you today that you find interesting? (This was gardening for me…)
  • What skills or knowledge are pivotal for your continued professional success? (Check those forums…)
  • If you could only learn three new things in the next year, what would you choose?

This can and should be fun as well as immensely rewarding!  When you blend personal “wish list” ideas in with professional areas of learning, you will find that the line between personal and professional begins to fade and you will experience the value of personal development in every area of your life.

“An investment in knowledge pays the best interest.”  (Benjamin Franklin)

“Create the kind of self that you will be happy to live with all your life. Make the most of yourself by fanning the tiny, inner sparks of possibility into flames of achievement.” (Golda Meir)

 

Behind the quote… lies true inspiration.

Quotes are like little pockets of life all sewn up in a few words.  They remind us of our humanity, our potential, even at time our losses.  Sometimes the quote itself, just the words, is sufficient to inspire the moment.  But quite often, the true inspiration and value comes when we know the story behind the quote.   Over the years, there have been many times when a quote has crossed my path and has paused my step.  There have also been times when the words re-directed the next steps.  And there have been times when the words have kept my steps going.

One of those quotes showed up in my news feed on Facebook yesterday from a friend.  The timing was impeccable for my journey.  Here are those words:

“You never know what is around the corner. 

It could be everything. Or it could be nothing.

You keep putting one foot in front of the other,

and then one day you look back

And you have climbed a mountain.”

The tapestry of these words was so rich in color and texture I wanted to know more and did some research.  I found a beautiful video where the words are spoken.  The story is the inspiration.  The words mean more when you know what is behind the quote.  We cannot give up on our journey.  We must keep putting one foot in front of the other.  And one day we will look back and find that we have climbed that mountain.  And we are our own champion.

Enjoy!

 

Quotes & questions: A powerful combination

I have always loved quotes.  My inner circle has even called me a quote junkie because I use them frequently in my communications and writing.  I recently experienced a day where a quote from the past and a question for today joined together to create a change catalyst for me. Has that ever happened for you?  You read something and then you experience that truth in a very real and vivid way.  It is one of the spiritual phenomenons that will bring me to my knees in gratitude every time.

The quote:  Mark Twain once said that “..The secret of getting ahead is getting started.”  Sounds rather simplistic but in fact, there is magic in those words.  One of the most challenging lessons I continue to learn is that progress will always trump perfection.  Continuous progress builds momentum and with momentum, we can transform a dream into reality.

The question:  A mentor asked me what I was willing to give up to realize a particular dream.  Always before the question was about what I was willing to do.  Now it shifted.  What was I willing to give up.  Finding the time to “start” was caught in a showdown between priorities.  I had to choose.  My answer?  I am ready to give up excuses. Because when it is all said and done, time isn’t the problem.  I am.  When asked why that was my choice I responded:  Because my excuses are holding me back from starting. Nothing else. And holding back from the start is robbing me of the finish line.  So to begin, that is what I must give up.  To finish, that is what I must give up.  Excuses.”

We never know when the words we hear or the questions we ask are going to be that “spark”.  Excuses weren’t something I even acknowledged before that conversation.  It wasn’t until that moment that I saw that the reasons were in fact just excuses.  The spark of change can be knowledge, insight, praise, even criticism.  But the outcome holds universal potential.  The right words at the right time can spell magic: if we allow it.

What quote from a thought leader have you heard recently that really resonated with you? What questions should you be asking related to that thought? The sounds bites can bring insight.  But when we really hear them and ask the right questions, they can also get us to action which is key.  I’m thinking of it as going from insight to incite. Let’s get started!

Behind the quote: Ralph Waldo Emerson

He remains one of the most influential and quoted writers of 19th century America.

What is interesting is that some of his most successful writings did not begin in fact as essays, they started out as speeches he gave to audiences and later published. 

Another notable point is that he was an early “self-publisher”.  He delivered an address to the Phi Beta Kappa Society at Cambridge in 1837 which ultimately became the work known as “The American Scholar”. 

At the urging of friends, he published it himself at his own expense. 

He also wrote his own musings in journals and it was his influence that resulted in Thoreau also starting to journal.  The Harvard University Press has published his journals in 16 volumes and some believe it contains some of his best work.  That’s not surprising to me given that the creative freedom of personal journals does often result in bursts of brilliance for most writers.

Another point worth mentioning is that he was also one of the early adopters of lecture “series” and he found that by approaching the market as a lecturer in this format gave him a much higher return financially.  At one point he was doing as many as 80 series a year and traveling a great deal.

When Walt Whitman first published his signature work Leaves of Grass, he sent a copy to Emerson for an opinion – perhaps an early “review”.  When he received a positive response, it stirred up market interest as well and a second edition was published.

What is the significance of all of this? It gives us insight into who he was and how he operated.  It helps put the quotes we have attributed to him within a context that makes them more crystallized.  It also speaks to the fact that success leaves clues.  Why do we still after nearly 200 years quote Emerson’s writings? Because he didn’t just write words.  He discussed ideas and presented new thoughts.  He delivered his message across different medias.  And he supported the work of others. His own private writings and observations of life in his world remain salient now.  One of my favorites of his thoughts is that “..The measure of a master is his success in bringing all men around to his opinion twenty years later.”

Our legacies are what live beyond us. In that respect, we are no different from Emerson. Although I have many fundamental philosophical differences with the man, in many areas his philosophies do resonate with me. Perhaps they will with you, too. 

Emerson on using new experiences as a way to put the past behind us:

Be not the slave of your own past. Plunge into the sublime seas, dive deep and swim far, so you shall come back with self-respect, with new power, with an advanced experience that shall explain and overlook the old.

Finish each day and be done with it. You have done what you could. Some blunders and absurdities no doubt crept in; forget them as soon as you can. Tomorrow is a new day; begin it well and serenely and with too high a spirit to be encumbered with your old nonsense.

Emerson on our individual uniqueness:

Insist on yourself; never imitate… Every great man is unique.

What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us.

None of us will ever accomplish anything excellent or commanding except when he listens to this whisper which is heard by him alone.

Emerson on character:

People seem not to see that their opinion of the world is also a confession of their character.

What you do speaks so loud that I cannot hear what you say.

And my own personal favorites:

This time, like all times, is a very good one, if we but know what to do with it.

Our chief want in life is somebody who shall make us do what we can.

The reward of a thing well done is to have done it.

And in closing, what would he say about this blog post? Perhaps he would say again: “…I hate quotations.  Tell me what you know.”  I love that.

Are we there yet?

A phrase from childhood.  What does that make you think of?  Remember when getting to the next place was so exciting you just could not wait?  Sometimes in life we can forget that getting to the next place is not always what’s important.  Sometimes it’s the journey.

Both of my parents were born and raised in West Virginia.  My father was a Marine and served in the Korean War.  When he returned and they married, they were faced with the decision of where to build their life together and raise their own family.  At the time, the area where their families lived did not offer much in terms of job prospects and the “boom” of their time was in the Great Lakes region in factories and industrial plants.  And so they embarked on that leg of their journey.

Both of my parents were determined to create a family centered life that offered love, security and opportunities based on education and service.  They worked hard to achieve their dream and were always seeking out a way to learn more and give more.  My Dad worked in a factory on the second shift.  Because the job wasn’t all that challenging for him mentally, he saved money to be able to buy a small portable radio to break the monotony of the time.  And he listened and learned from Earl Nightingale.  He also put what he learned into action.  As a result, the factory life didn’t last long.

He was a good mechanic.  Probably a great mechanic.  So he opened a garage and specialized in fixing foreign-made cars.  He understood the value of scarcity and integrity.  He built a business around those principles.

In that time, garages or service stations as we called them were independently owned and they had contracts with the oil companies to sell particular brands of fuel.  When those companies decided to own the gas stations themselves, business owners such as my Dad were faced with either going to work for them or finding a new venture.  For my Dad, it was clear that he would find his next venture.  A friend of the family had already relocated to Texas and was working with the company that would bring Caterpillar equipment into the region.  When he found out my Dad was looking for an opportunity, he knew he had the right one for him.  And he did.  So once again, my family relocated – this time to Texas.  And once again my Dad’s integrity, ability to work with people and to recognize every opportunity to generate value for a customer brought the next season of success.

As you can see, in our home, the highest values other than family and faith were hard work, education and service.  Those values remain with me now.  And those are the values I have worked to instill in the next generations coming up behind me.  But the other message of this story is that quite often, moving on is essential to finding the next opportunity.  There does not have to be fear about it because the important things, the ones that matter, go with us as we progress on the journey.

No, we are not there yet.  Perhaps we never will be.  I tend to think of destinations now rather like perfection.  Somewhat of a delusion.  Rather I like to think of them as stops along the way.  It’s about the journey and taking each opportunity as it shows itself.  Always remaining true to our core values while allowing ourselves to grow.   One of my favorite thoughts on this subject comes from Andrew McCarthy – actor turned travel writer and publisher:

“There’s a certain moment in every memorable journey, often recognized only in hindsight, when the trip you are on presents itself, and the one you thought you were taking or had planned is jettisoned. It’s then that you begin really traveling, not merely touring.”

In closing, I’ll borrow from Shakespeare – someone who certainly understood the art of possibility within the journey.

“To unpathed waters, undreamed shores.”

Honesty & Integrity: Where it all begins..

When someone holds the torch for us so that we can clearly see our way, they give us a gift beyond anything they or we could imagine.  They give us the opportunity to see truth.

One person who has done that for so many is Debbie Ford.  Sadly, we lost her physical light in 2013 but her legacy light lives on.

For me, this short clip from her on honesty and integrity sums up the foundation of her message very clearly.  We must first be honest with ourselves.  And only then can we love ourselves.  Our total self.  Her voice and teachings have raised thousands to an unparalleled level of spiritual and personal awareness.

She learned to live in peace and love.  For herself and her world.  I have no doubt that she will continue on the same way.

Godspeed Debbie Ford.